Our daughter is a very sweet child. When she received birthday money a few weeks ago, she decided that she wanted to go to Build-A-Bear workshop to make a bear for her great-grandmother who is ill. Ironically, the money had come from her great-grandmother and her great-great uncle Paul (g.g.'s brother and caregiver). As things go, the illness is terminal and Grammy will not be with us much longer. We've known that for at least a week, but had not told the children. As I finished working on the first communion dress Saturday, I asked Daughter to look through my patterns for stuffed animals. Then, I suggested that we make one for Grammy instead. Daughter loved that idea! She picked out the fabric for a bunny but when we didn't have quite enough decided a bear would be fine. She hoped the bear would get there in time for Grammy's 91st birthday this Thursday. I ensured her that it would, but had then had to explain that Grammy might not live until then. Without missing a beat, she replied, "That's ok, Mommy. We can give it to Uncle Paul then as a memory of her." I was touched.update: Grammy died May 5, 2008 at 10:40 pm. She did not get to see the bear. Daughter decided that she did want to give it to "Paul-Paul" as a remembrance instead of burying it with Grammy.



